So, I have been meaning to start a newsletter outreach to the lovely ladies who have joined my email list and I guess life has kind of gotten in the way. That’s a bullshit excuse actually. I am not sure what has been holding me back, but let’s just say the newsletter outreach is going to be on. Like ON! I am feeling inspired and committed. And I have so much I want to tell just the ladies who are on my list. It will be the insider scoop for sure!
The title of the newsletter is going to be Man Not Required. You know why? As a woman in my 40’s I can tell you that while I am a huge fan of men, and sex, and penises, a man is not required in my life. Like a permanent man. Like a man I come home to every night. Absolutely not required.
You know why? I am a grown ass woman. I make my own money. I am confident in who I am. I do what I want to do when I want to do it. If I don’t want to make my bed I don’t. If I don’t want to cook, I don’t. I control the remote. If I want to sleep in, I do. Weekends are all about boozy brunch, followed by a nap, or not. Or maybe I use the weekend to write. Or read. Or binge watch Netflix. Point is that it is up to me! And if I want to have a date, it’s as easy as booting up Tinder or Hinge. If I want a new lover, same. If I need to have an orgasm, there is my goody box of toys under my bed or my little black book of lovely men in my life.
I get to choose what and who I want in my life and you do too! Be it a one night stand, a summer fling or the possibility of a longer term relationship. We can choose what we want, but it’s never a necessity.
My mission is to empower you to embrace your freedom, embrace your sexuality, own your financial situation, and live your life to the absolute fucking fullest. Travel the world. Learn new languages. Explore other cultures. Appreciate art. Let music take you to another dimension. Value your friendships. Be open to the world.
Step one – if you haven’t already signed up for my email list, you should. Do that here:
And be on the lookout for bi-weekly notes from me. I’ll be talking about all things fabulous about being single and 40+ – dating, navigating apps, safety, travel, money, friends, friends with benefits, sex, sex toys, lingerie, culture, art, dining out, healthy living and FREEDOM in your life! #ManNotRequired
What do you think?